The flow of information is:
A command or statement is not communication, it’s a one-way process with no feedback. Real communication requires a two way process to exchange information.
Communication is a two-way process of achieving a mutual understanding in which participants not only exchange information, ideas and feelings but also create and share meaning.
Point to achieve that flow (particularly as an active listener):
Some barriers to good communication:
What if the bystanders observe a hazard? How likely will they be to speak up?
Researchers believe that the reason that people often struggle to speak up, especially when they are lower in status, is that they do not feel psychologically safe to do so.
Psychological safety is a person’s sense of confidence that the team will not embarrass, reject, or punish someone for speaking up” and this confidence comes from a sense of mutual respect and trust amongst team members. People tend to speak up freely when they feel psychologically safe – that is, when they are not influenced by the fear of people disproving, or by concern about the personal or professional costs.
The bystander effect makes us less likely to intervene when more people are present. For example, when lots of people are present we feel that the responsibility is shared or that others are more responsible to say something.
Behaviour towards the team can affect the effectiveness of leadership.
A rational person will tend to stay rational, moving up or down depending on circumstances. A person with emotional responses will tend to remain emotional, moving up or down depending on mood and circumstances.
Ideally a pilot will remain on the left, consciously keeping a rational response style.
Assertive: (Calm, in Control):
When you make decisions without consulting me I feel annoyed because I am also responsible in the long run.
Supportive:
I understand that it must have been difficult to have made that decision by yourself – is there anything I can help you to clarify now that I am available.
Aggressive: (Lost control):
How dare you make that decision without consulting me, you have no right – that’s my job.
Submissive: (Doesn’t seem to want control):
Ops have reduced my fuel load for the next sector. It’s legal and we’re running late, so I guess we’ll just do what they want.
Have you observed a crew member doing the wrong thing? Intentionally? Non-intentionally?
Normalized Deviancy is part of decision-making in guarding against intentional non-compliance! What helps us with avoiding non-compliance or normalized deviancy?
90% of the time we should be in the green and blue! Good communication skills will rarely go into the SE of this model, they are dealt with in the C and A.
For example: